Comments on: Tom and Glenn and … http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/ There Is No 'You' In Quivering ... Thu, 17 May 2012 00:53:03 +0000 hourly 1 By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1511 Anonymous Mon, 13 Apr 2009 17:24:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1511 As far as your good friend in the church and some of mine for that matter. They often cannot advise you well because that would mean they had to deal with their own live honestly. I suppose it is the same in or out of the church to be fair, none of us want to look at ourselves. I would bet 50 bucks she had intimacy problems of her own, otherwise she would have said she would have her husband talk to yours. Youngest chick As far as your good friend in the church and some of mine for that matter. They often cannot advise you well because that would mean they had to deal with their own live honestly. I suppose it is the same in or out of the church to be fair, none of us want to look at ourselves. I would bet 50 bucks she had intimacy problems of her own, otherwise she would have said she would have her husband talk to yours. Youngest chick

]]> By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1515 Anonymous Mon, 13 Apr 2009 17:24:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1515 As far as your good friend in the church and some of mine for that matter. They often cannot advise you well because that would mean they had to deal with their own live honestly. I suppose it is the same in or out of the church to be fair, none of us want to look at ourselves. I would bet 50 bucks she had intimacy problems of her own, otherwise she would have said she would have her husband talk to yours. Youngest chick As far as your good friend in the church and some of mine for that matter. They often cannot advise you well because that would mean they had to deal with their own live honestly. I suppose it is the same in or out of the church to be fair, none of us want to look at ourselves. I would bet 50 bucks she had intimacy problems of her own, otherwise she would have said she would have her husband talk to yours. Youngest chick

]]> By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1510 Anonymous Thu, 09 Apr 2009 16:52:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1510 Cynic - Thanks for the info. I'll look into it. I'm always ready to learn new things and new prespectives!<br/><br/>Cecilia Cynic – Thanks for the info. I’ll look into it. I’m always ready to learn new things and new prespectives!

Cecilia

]]> By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1514 Anonymous Thu, 09 Apr 2009 16:52:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1514 Cynic - Thanks for the info. I'll look into it. I'm always ready to learn new things and new prespectives!<br/><br/>Cecilia Cynic – Thanks for the info. I’ll look into it. I’m always ready to learn new things and new prespectives!

Cecilia

]]> By: The Cynic Sage http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1509 The Cynic Sage Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:04:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1509 The Biblical Counseling movement, founded by Jay Adams, is pretty sleazy IMO (I reccomend checking out <a HREF="http://againstbiblicalcounseling.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">this blog</a> for more info). I put it on a simmilar level as the counseling offered by the church of Scientology (in that it's primary goal is controlling others rather than helping them). The Biblical Counseling movement, founded by Jay Adams, is pretty sleazy IMO (I reccomend checking out this blog for more info). I put it on a simmilar level as the counseling offered by the church of Scientology (in that it’s primary goal is controlling others rather than helping them).

]]> By: The Cynic Sage http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1513 The Cynic Sage Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:04:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1513 The Biblical Counseling movement, founded by Jay Adams, is pretty sleazy IMO (I reccomend checking out <a HREF="http://againstbiblicalcounseling.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">this blog</a> for more info). I put it on a simmilar level as the counseling offered by the church of Scientology (in that it's primary goal is controlling others rather than helping them). The Biblical Counseling movement, founded by Jay Adams, is pretty sleazy IMO (I reccomend checking out this blog for more info). I put it on a simmilar level as the counseling offered by the church of Scientology (in that it’s primary goal is controlling others rather than helping them).

]]> By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1508 Anonymous Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:07:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1508 I'm currently a psych grad student and a social worker on the side. I love to hear stories like this. I am myself not religious but I fully endorse people seeking out pastoral counseling. At times I do worry about the bias but overall a properly trained pastor can be a terrific way for isolated people and people weary of the mental health system to get help. Whenever someone tells me that counseling is not for them I always ask them to seek out pastoral counseling and often time people do!<br/><br/>Cecilia I’m currently a psych grad student and a social worker on the side. I love to hear stories like this. I am myself not religious but I fully endorse people seeking out pastoral counseling. At times I do worry about the bias but overall a properly trained pastor can be a terrific way for isolated people and people weary of the mental health system to get help. Whenever someone tells me that counseling is not for them I always ask them to seek out pastoral counseling and often time people do!

Cecilia

]]> By: Anonymous http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1512 Anonymous Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:07:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1512 I'm currently a psych grad student and a social worker on the side. I love to hear stories like this. I am myself not religious but I fully endorse people seeking out pastoral counseling. At times I do worry about the bias but overall a properly trained pastor can be a terrific way for isolated people and people weary of the mental health system to get help. Whenever someone tells me that counseling is not for them I always ask them to seek out pastoral counseling and often time people do!<br/><br/>Cecilia I’m currently a psych grad student and a social worker on the side. I love to hear stories like this. I am myself not religious but I fully endorse people seeking out pastoral counseling. At times I do worry about the bias but overall a properly trained pastor can be a terrific way for isolated people and people weary of the mental health system to get help. Whenever someone tells me that counseling is not for them I always ask them to seek out pastoral counseling and often time people do!

Cecilia

]]> By: Becky http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1507 Becky Tue, 07 Apr 2009 07:53:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1507 I'm glad you were seeking help at this point. <br/><br/>I believe that forgiveness is a two sided thing. Anger and bitterness tear the person up doing it far more than the one who is the recipient (and often unknowing they are even the problem.)<br/><br/>Had your husband ever asked for forgiveness for anything?<br/><br/>I'm intrigued. I'm amazed by your willingess to be touched intimately by someone that you held so much against. <br/><br/>And, if anyone is superwoman...someone with 11 kids without a supportive husband must fall into that category! <br/><br/>(BTW, what did he do for a living?) I’m glad you were seeking help at this point.

I believe that forgiveness is a two sided thing. Anger and bitterness tear the person up doing it far more than the one who is the recipient (and often unknowing they are even the problem.)

Had your husband ever asked for forgiveness for anything?

I’m intrigued. I’m amazed by your willingess to be touched intimately by someone that you held so much against.

And, if anyone is superwoman…someone with 11 kids without a supportive husband must fall into that category!

(BTW, what did he do for a living?)

]]> By: Susanne http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/comment-page-1/#comment-1506 Susanne Mon, 06 Apr 2009 06:35:00 +0000 http://www.nolongerquivering.com/2009/04/06/tom-and-glenn-and/#comment-1506 May the Goddesses of Love and Light and Beauty bless and guide you, and make you whole in all ways. You are beautiful. Hugs....Susanne May the Goddesses of Love and Light and Beauty bless and guide you, and make you whole in all ways. You are beautiful. Hugs….Susanne

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