by Erika My sister and I in a photo booth. I think we were 12 & 13. She’s older than I am. My childhood from the time I was born to the age of 14 was pretty much normal and mainstream. I grew up in a Christian home, going to church every Sunday, taking part in VBS in the summers, going to public school (though I went a few years to a Christian private school when I first started school), playing with the neighbor kids, watching cartoons in the morning….all the things that kids did Full post …
NLQ News from around the blogosphere …
The NLQ-News Daily - published by Vyckie Garrison
The Unspoken Words: (In)voluntary Submission
Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy by Kathryn Joyce
A perfect family, a godly life … but who pays the price?
Archive for July, 2009
Unassisted Bathtub Births and Quiverfull
Here’s the FOX 59 report which includes a portion of the interview that I did in Minneapolis: Discuss this post on the NLQ forums! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ NLQ Recommends … ‘Breaking Their Will: Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment’ by Janet Heimlich ‘Quivering Daughters‘ by Hillary McFarland ‘Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement‘ by Kathryn Joyce
Patriarchy Across Cultures: Living in the Material World
by Tapati Krishna and Arjuna on the battlefield, used on album by George Harrison I can blame it all on George Harrison. I and my friend Carolyn were teenagers of the early 1970s, devoted to the music of the Beatles and of George Harrison in particular. We were also searching for the meaning of life, like countless others before us. We combed the library for information on various religions and encountered books like A Soul’s Journey by Peter Richelieu (unfortunately out of print now). We learned about reincarnation, astral bodies, karma, and transmigration of Full post …
Connecting The Dots: Patriarchy Across Cultures
by Tapati Hare Krishna temple in St. Louis, 1975. Tapati is in the center front row in a blue print sari. When a friend referred me to the blog “No Longer Quivering,” she knew why I would resonate with the posts I found there. Like me, she had once belonged to the Hare Krishna Movement, though years after my own involvement. We immediately saw many parallels between the lives of Christian women following the Quiverfull teachings. Vyckie and Laura described their past lives in ways that sounded like many of the young Hare Krishna Full post …
Lo, children ARE a blessing …
by Vyckie It is true ~ I am abundantly blessed … No Longer Quivering has been up and running for less than 4 months ~ and in that short time, I think the blog and forums have already developed quite a community to provide a fair amount of stories and info. which illustrate some of the very real problems with the quiverfull worldview and lifestyle. Just this morning, however ~ as I was looking at the posts here and trying to get a feel of the overall tone of NLQ ~ I noticed Full post …
Freedom From Patriarchy
by Erika Here in the US, we celebrated our nation’s independence and freedom this past Saturday, the 4th of July. This particular holiday always makes me think of my own Independence Day. We had a BBQ with family and friends this past Saturday and while we were sitting inside to stay out of the rain, I was telling my friends about the jumper that my sister had made for herself back when she was 18. I had recently posted the picture of our family on my Facebook account and one of my friends asked, “Does Full post …
NLQ on Interfaith Voices
Interfaith Voices is a public radio show promoting religious harmony and interfaith understanding. T he nation’s leading religion news magazine on public radio, Interfaith Voices probes the many ways that religion informs our politics and culture. In so doing, Interfaith Voices has grown to become an independent resource for religious and secular listeners on 62 stations nationwide. From July 3rd through the 9th, the Quiverfull segment will air featuring Kathryn Joyce, author of Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement, and former quiverfull mom, Vyckie Garrison of No Longer Quivering. You can listen to the program Full post …
NLQ FAQ: How can I help my "Quiverfull" friend?
by Vyckie Q: How can I help my “Quiverfull” friend? I have a good friend who is really into the quiverfull/patriarchy lifestyle. She is always careful to appear cheerful and happy with her family life, but I have often suspected that things are not quite as rosy as she wants everyone to believe. After reading the stories here on NLQ, I am more concerned than ever, especially for her children who are very well-behaved and respectful but who seem to be sending out “distress signals” like Angel did in Vyckie’s story. My friend is Full post …
NLQ Reader’s Choice … Must Read!
- The Amazing Bosch Universal Mixer
- Let The Men Speak: “Quiverfull nearly destroyed our marriage”
- “Husbands love your wives …” ~ the Peanut Butter in the Patriarchy trap!
- A Most Twisted Love
- Lo, children ARE a blessing …
- Tea Party Family Values and the World’s Greatest Freak Show
- It’s About MONEY
- Did I *really* trust Him?
- QUIVERFULL: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement ~ A Review
- To Those Who May Be Shocked, Disappointed, and Hurt by the News of My Apostasy
Steadfast Daughters in a Quivering World
NLQ FAQs
- What is Quiverfull?
- How can I help my “Quiverfull” friend?
- Does Patriarchy Glorify God?
- Quiverfull and the Bible
- The Bible & Birth Control
- The Bible and the Nature of Woman
- The Bible and Male Headship – Part 1
- The Bible and Male Headship – Part 2
- The Bible and Male Headship – Part 3
- Should There Be a “You” in Quivering?
- Why Do You Call Quiverfull Legalistic?
- Is No Longer Quivering an Atheist Website?
- How did you get yourself into this mess?
The Duggar Family
- Are Jim Bob & Michelle Duggar “Quiverfull??
- Quiverfull Daughters: The Making of a Helpmeet ~ TLC’s 19 Kids & Counting: The Duggar Family on How To Prepare For Courtship & Marriage
- Debt-Free Duggars ~ Pt. 1: How Quiverfull Couples Support All Those Kids!
- Debt-Free Duggars ~ Pt. 2: Quiverfull Royalty vs. Quivering Reality
- Jill, Jessa and Jinger Duggar: “Experiencing freedom teenagers rarely taste.”
- God gave them brains too
- Why Michelle Duggar can’t say, “We’re done!”
- 49 Character Qualities of the Duggars: A Report Card
- Duggar Bashing
- A Love That Multiplies ~ The Duggar’s New Book

Michelle says, Never enough babies!
