by Sierra “What did you think?” My mother asked, as our blue Chevrolet rolled smoothly out of the parking lot, mingling with more expensive cars on a fresh-paved freeway. “I liked it,” responded seven-year-old I. “I actually listened.” We were talking about our first visit to Anna and Sven’s church, an informal affair that gathered weekly in the upper annex of a suburban YMCA. The church had begun in the pastor’s living room, hosting only two or three families. Over the next few years it had grown to six or seven. The pastor and his Full post …
Archive for November, 2009
Vyckie’s Tour de Crap: The Elsie Books
This’ll be interesting. While cooped up in the three back rooms with Warren and all six kids during the remodeling project, I picked up one of Angel’s books, “Elsie Dinsmore” ~ just skimming through when something caught my attention and led to me reading the entire 8 book set. (More volumes have since been published.) I was seriously rolling my eyes the whole way through. I wrote this review and submitted it to Harvey & Laurie Bluedorn’s “Teaching the Trivium” discussion list for classical ed. homeschoolers. The Elsie Books The main problem I have Full post …
Vyckie’s Tour de Crap: Quiverfull and the Life of the Mother
The recent “Born to Breed” episode of “Secret Lives of Women” has attracted quite a bit of attention from practicing Quiverfull women ~ and several QF/P blogs are discussing my story and NLQ. I appreciate that quite a few of these blog commenters are giving thoughtful consideration to the message here. But many others are insisting that my Quiverfull “conviction” was a burdensome form of legalism rather than a true calling from the Lord. It is frustrating to read their comments as these women dismiss my Quiverfull experience as irrelevant by concluding that what we were doing in Full post …
Patriarchy Across Cultures: What It’s Like To Sing The Blues
by Tapati God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in his shoes ‘Cause then you really might know what it’s like to sing the blues–Everlast Previously we had just received word that Mike’s mom had passed away. Mike wanted to go to her funeral but we were broke. We called his dad. It turned out he was nearby and he offered to take us to Chicago in his van. John said he felt bad for not being there while his son was growing up and that this was the least he could do. Full post …
NLQ FAQ: Does Patriarchy Glorify God?
by Kristen Rosser ~ aka: KR Wordgazer Q: As a Quiverfull couple, we practice headship and submission to strengthen our marriage and bring glory to God. But you are saying that Patriarchy hurts the husband and belittles God. Please explain. What does “glorify” mean when we’re talking about God? A simple definition can be found in what we commonly mean when we say a person is “seeking glory.” It means that person wants the credit for good things that have happened, and to be honored for those things. To glorify God is to seek Full post …
Patriarchy Acoss Cultures: From Generation to Generation
by Tapati Grandpa Glen and Grandma Velma Tallman My mother sounds like a horrible person as I write about her blocking my efforts to leave home, hitting me, and subsiding into depression and suicide. Of course there remains a stigma associated with mental illness and it’s difficult for most people to find compassion for people who act out when their illness is poorly managed. In the 1970s there weren’t any really good anti-depressants on the market and the ones offered to my mom came with some hefty side effects. Psychotherapy also wasn’t as Full post …
Rachel Scott ~ the two-headed lady …
Rachel Scott on WETV’s “Born to Breed”: Well, my husband is in charge … and I do believe in women submitting to men … Rachel Scott on the Joy Behar Show: I believe that my husband and I have an equal partnership. But in matters of dispute, I would say that the two of us make decisions pretty much together as team. So I think submission is misunderstood. BEHAR: So it’s not the total patriarchy that it’s painted – as in the film piece that I saw. SCOTT: I don’t believe that is total accurate depiction Full post …
Why Did She Do That?!
Rachel Scott’s crazy-making tactics on the Joy Behar Show Look, Mimi~ I’m on TV! LOL When I first received the phone call asking me to go to New York to be interviewed on the Joy Behar Show ~ I had to admit that I had no idea who Joy Behar is. “I am still pretty culturally illiterate after all my years as a fundamentalist Quiverfuller,” I explained. “We do have cable TV now, but the kids keep it tuned to the Disney Channel.” So, I can tell you all about Demi Levato, Selena Gomez, the Full post …
Michelle says, Never enough babies!
