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Vyckie Garrison started No Longer Quivering to tell the story of her “escape” from the Quiverfull movement.
Over time, NLQ has developed into a valuable resource of information regarding the deceptions and dangers of the Quiverfull philosophy and lifestyle. Several more former QF adherents are now contributing their stories to NLQ and our collective voice makes these Quiverfull warnings impossible to dismiss or ignore.
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- Julie paradox: The link is broken: oooh, now that's weird. The link is fine in the full article but wrong in ...
- Madamoyzelle: Kristen, it never occurred to me at all to put that verse cultural context and norms of the day. And ...
- Karin: Some lovely trash talking going on there above. It's too easy to hide behind a computer screen. I sense ...
- abba12: I've never heard that verse explained that way, that's really interesting, thank you!
- Kristen: Madamoyzelle, Peter says men are to respect their wives, and I don't think Paul would contradict him. 1 Pet. ...
- Madamoyzelle: Hi Wordgazer! ' "Sorry, something went wrong there! The phrase was supposed to read, “It is very difficult to continue to ...
- Madamoyzelle: Hi Jenny, Probably "work" was too strong a word. It goes back to the "Boy-Girl Theory." It goes like this: A ...
- KR Wordgazer: Followed by, "If anyone teaches their spouse to be a doormat. . . "
- KR Wordgazer: Sorry, something went wrong there! The phrase was supposed to read, "It is very difficult to continue to love ...
- KR Wordgazer: I agree. I don't think adding male stereotypes helps. I think that even when a person isn't an ...
- Jenny Islander: I wouldn't put it that way. My husband doesn't have to work to keep me. He has to ...
- abba12: Or maybe we could just refer to them as bad homeschoolers or people who shouldn't be homeschooling in the first ...
- Linda: When you discuss homeschooling please refer to it as Christian Homeschoolers or Christian Homeschooling. Always insert that Christian peice ...
- Madamoyzelle: Well. Yuck. Just--yuck. I have taught my daughter over and over again: "If you get a vibe off people, LISTEN TO ...
- abba12: I'm so glad you were able to recognise that what they had was by no means biblical submission, what a ...
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Michelle says, Never enough babies!What the quiverfull movement doesn't have is satisfaction. It casts itself as only looking for "blessing" but in many cases it seems to go far beyond that to reach the collectors' mentality which bespeaks more of greed, grabbing for every child you can, and if you don't do that, you fail spiritually. It's an insidious teaching and my only regret in accepting my atheism is knowing that there will be no ultimate reckoning where those who promoted and gained from this teaching do not face what they have created and see it for what it really is. The quiverful movement claims to welcome every child, but it never allows you to be happy with just what you have already. Satiety and peace are foreign to it.
~ NLQ forum member, JemandNLQ Unique Visitors Since March 7, 2009
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All 3 Duggar girls are very pretty
hey guys and girls girls i was wondering how you do your hair because it’s so pretty and were you get your clothes because i can’t find the skirts anywere jean skirts i love your family your luky to have one like that i want to be like you when i grow up and i want to have a family like yours your my rolemodle right now you guys are wonderful to show god all this respect not many people around the world believe in god and jesus i am just fasinated with it and you well email back have a JOYFUL DAY.
yes! that’s right a definitly i wanna have these kind of family it’s like living in a dream with so much hardship for mom though you will never get bored having a lot of kids and teaching them for god it’s peace i wish every family in this world was like there’s hehe, perhaps a catholic like me could marry a man religious and kind enough to be living not only in a peaceful way but a better life for both us and our children in the future now that i’m still 13 year’s old all i have to do is work hard graduate college and work and find or if any possibilities a man come up to me and wish to be my lover yeah that’s so definite…….omly if i love this man and trust him and love me for who i am and not like those family who got divorced just after 1 year of living together and so on……. i love being a girl cause girl is princesses in everyway even though people are adopted by those others who drink alcohol drugs doing bad things being arrested or just unlucky punished by god for there act of sin