Tag: bill gothard

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #10: Basic Training II

March 3, 2010

Persuasiveness vs. Contentiousness – Guiding vital truths around another’s mental roadblocks (II Timothy 2:24) – Bill Gothard by RazingRuth One of the goals of homeschooling, for ATI and I’m sure other communities that homeschool, is to forge tighter bonds within the family unit. As my teacher and the only other female in the house (prior to the first sister), my mother and I developed a very tight bond.  I looked to her as my mother, of course, but also as any small child looks upon their teacher – I thought the sun rose and set with her.  She, Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #9: Basic Training

March 1, 2010

Wisdom vs. Natural Inclinations -Seeing and responding to life’s situations from God’s frame of reference (Proverbs 9:10) ~ Bill Gothard by RazingRuth Bill Gothard wasn’t a great student.  He makes no effort to hide the fact that he flunked the first grade and barely passed the next eight grades.  From 1st to 8th grade, he was a lackluster student.  However, according to the legend, near the end of eighth grade, an older friend challenged him to read and memorize large portions of scripture.  In doing this, Bill Gothard (claims to have) found the key to unlocking Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #8

February 27, 2010

Security vs. Anxiety -Structuring my life around that which is eternal and cannot be destroyed or taken away (John 6:27) – Bill Gothard by RazingRuth (Note from Ruth: This chapter is about my experience and my life.  This is not intended to represent any family but my own or any childhood but my own.  I fully realize that the adults involved made choices that were, even if influenced by ATI discipline strategies, in fact, choices.  Not all ATI families utilize the same strategies or would implement them in the same manner.  In addition, I am not Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #7

February 24, 2010

Resourcefulness vs. Wastefulness – Wise use of that which others would normally overlook or discard (Luke 16:10) – Bill Gothard by RazingRuth Six boys in one room and me, sitting like a princess, in my canopy bed.  If that’s not a recipe for jealousy, then I don’t know what is. My parents would often go to little “retreats” put on by the QF/ATI crowd wherein they’d discuss the practical issues of living QF.  How do you fit seven children in a house built for five people max?  How do you feed your quiver?  How do you clothe Full post …

Are Scott and Andrea Bass a Quiverfull couple?

February 13, 2010

This article was originally posted at She Keeps Bees. by KM You have probably heard the story by now.  Scott and Andrea Bass, the Arizona couple who locked a fourteen year old girl in a bathroom without running water for two months and tortured her to the point of starvation?  I’m wondering if this is a homeschooling Quiverfull family–and, if so, why the media has not remarked on it yet? Let me be very clear here: I am not making this leap based merely on reports that the family homeschools. I recognize that it is Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #6

February 8, 2010

Meekness vs. Anger -Yielding my personal rights and expectations to God (Psalm 62:5)  – Bill Gothard by RazingRuthAfter a year with our family, Kay left…and in many ways, so did my mother.  Admittedly, my mom was more organized and seemed to take more control over her wild boys.  The housework was being done and Elijah, the oldest, was being homeschooled four days a week.  There was a schedule that hung on the kitchen wall and woe to the person who didn’t keep to it. My father came home, when he was in town, to properly prepared and Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #5

February 2, 2010

Gentleness vs. Harshness – Showing personal care and concern in meeting the need of others (I Thessalonians 2:7) – Bill Gothard by RazingRuth From my earliest memories, my mother was a study in contrasts.  Our home was chaotic (three boys and a new baby, all under the age of five).  After my birth, my parents purposed to begin homeschooling.  I say “my parents”, but that just means that dad decided mom would be doing her Christian duty best if she homeschooled.  Not to mention the fact that dad’s employer and spiritual advisor had an up-and-coming curriculum that he Full post …

People Magazine: Duggars “won’t rule out having baby #20″

January 29, 2010

Why Michelle Duggar can’t say, “We’re done!”   “We’ll just wait and see what God has in store.” ~ Michelle Duggar, People, Feb. 8, 2010 by Vyckie  As a former Quiverfull mom of seven, I’ve had such a variety of birth experiences ~ emergency c-sections, scheduled repeat c-sections, failed homebirth attempt, successful homebirth (after four cesareans!), hospital VBAC, and with my last birth ~ which I had planned to have unassisted at home, I ended up with a 5th c-section due to partial uterine rupture.  My complicated birthing history made living out the Quiverfull ideal of Full post …