Tag: Buddy System

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #3

January 25, 2010

Discernment vs. Judgment – The God-given ability to understand why things happen (I Samuel 16:7) by RazingRuth Two babies in ten months.  Samuel came three weeks early.  That was my mother’s introduction to parenting.  I’m sure she must’ve been over-whelmed.  With my father starting to travel on occasion, I’m sure she was lonely.  But she had her church friends and they were quick to prop her up when she needed it.  They assured her that feeling lonely was normal, but that she should commit herself to prayer and supporting God’s will.  Still, when Samuel was six months old, Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #2

January 20, 2010

Deference vs. Rudeness – Limiting my freedom in order not offend the tastes of those whom God has called me to serve (Romans 14:21) – Bill Gothard by RazingRuth Within five months of ‘Elijah’s birth, my mom figured out she was expecting again.  It dawned on my mother, on Elijah’s fifth month birthday, that she hadn’t had a period-  she chalked it up to nursing -when,  in actuality, she was already eight weeks along. She was ecstatic, as was my father.  In their bliss, they called my mother’s parents to share the news.  It was met Full post …

The 49 Character Qualities of Ruth #1

January 15, 2010

“Orderliness v Disorganization” – Preparing myself and my surroundings so I will achieve the greatest efficiency (I Corinthians 14:40) by RazingRuth If you’re not ATI, you may not understand the quotation before each article I plan to do. I’ll try to explain. Bill Gothard promotes an educational series in which he defines forty-nine “operational qualities” of character. These are the “character traits” you hear the Duggars go on about. Each week, as an ATIer, you are supposed to audit yourself against these character traits. “Are you orderly or disorganized?”, in concordance with biblical principle and scripture. For Full post …